[讨论]TOPIC : How do you plan for your wedding?
I attended a wedding held in a restaurant this moring. It was very traditional and the newlywed invited their parents, friends, workmates to have lunch together and performed a little ceremony there. Maybe this kind of wedding is very ordinary in China. People regard it nothing special.
But I think we could add some varieties to our wedding. That is to say we could make our wedding special by customizing our ceremonies to suit our personal desires. Have you ever thought about that you would have your wedding in church, have an unusual trip instead of wedding party, hold your ceremony under a spreading oak tree, or enjoy your exciting time on the sands of a favorite beach?
If you have enough money as well as energy, how do you plan for your wedding? A traditional one or a special one, a simple one or a luxurious one? Let‘s have a free discussion about wedding with your great imagination.
=Traditional wedding is good and easy to be accepted by most people at different ages. .. but in my way of thinking, my ideal wedding ceremory would be held in church and I would be blessed by my parents, friends, workmates as well as God. It would be very romantic and blest to have my wedding there.
If you hold a traditional wedding ,you can also be blessed by all the people attended the wedding! It is sure that if you hold a morden one it will be much more romantic,but as a traditional chinese person and in a traditional society, to hold a traditional wedding can be accepted by most people,and when making a decision to decide which one should be better ,we should consider the society where we live. So to keep the traditional culture going I suggest chosing the traditional one.
No luxury cars, no flowers, no crowded friends and relatives, I just want to sit on a beautiful beach with my bride waiting for the sun rise.I will told her that my love is just like the sun in the early morning.
Actually, I really have not thought about the Webbing.For I am not sure there is a webbing in my life. haha.
If have, I think, I will hold a traditional one and my desired one. As knows, I am the youngest of the big family, the traditional webbing is very indispensable for my relatives, friends and workmates. And my desire one is time belongs to us, to go to quiet beautiful place with a beach, and can see the Sunrise both us, just enjoy without any small things.
when talking of wedding,it's quite a luxurious thing for me.So,the meaning of wedding seems nothing in my life.Perhaps in some future day i might change my attitude towards being marriage.I will have lots of thinkings to discuss togeter with everybody.
"plan can not always catch up with change". I am not a person who is able to consider what is his future and how to make it!! I am not a person who is what i have told you,i only know how to have a good today!!!
If i have enough money and time,i will hold a modern and special wedding,i am a romantic girl,wedding is beginning of a marriage,it`s the most special day for most of ladies,so do i.Im my eyes,firstly,in a church we vow together, then there are lots of flowers,guests,friends and my parents in the open air,we have a big meal .there are filds,flowers,laughter,food ,balloons and so.wa!!what a day!!after the ceremony,there comes honeymoon.(I am a day dreamer)
Wedding is not so important to me. The most important is to find a man who loves me and treats me well.If my future hundred and I are in deep love with each other, how to hold the wedding is not so important to me.
泪鱼: "plan can not always catch up with change". I am not a person who is able to consider what is his future and how to make it!! I am not a person who is what i have told you,i only know how to have a good today!!!
